If you’re caught up in a cycle of negative thinking, it can feel like you have no choice but to let those thoughts continue to dominate you. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.
With the right support, it’s genuinely possible to break the hold negative thinking has and start experiencing life very differently. As a hypnotherapist in Weston-super-Mare, this is one of the things I help clients with regularly.
Negative thinking tends to involve judging, criticising and doubting yourself — often automatically and without much conscious awareness. These thoughts can appear out of nowhere and have a real impact on confidence, mood and how you experience everyday life.
Common patterns include:
Catastrophising — automatically expecting the worst possible outcome in any situation.
Personalising — assuming you are to blame for things that go wrong, even when that’s not the case.
Filtering — focusing on the negatives in a situation while glossing over anything positive.
We all experience negative thoughts sometimes — that’s normal. The problems begin when we treat those thoughts as facts rather than just thoughts, accepting them automatically without questioning them.
When that happens, negative thoughts can trigger the fight-or-flight stress response — your brain interprets them as a real and immediate threat, and the physical symptoms of anxiety quickly follow.
Over time, worries can shift from the present into the future — spiralling into “what if?” thinking about health, relationships, finances and other areas of life. At its worst this can become chronic, debilitating anxiety.
Your thoughts are not facts — negative thoughts feel very real but that doesn’t make them true. Learning to observe a thought rather than automatically believe it is one of the most powerful shifts you can make.
Notice your thinking patterns — negative thinking can become so habitual you don’t even register it happening. Simply becoming more aware of your thoughts — almost like watching them from a slight distance — starts to reduce their power.
Don’t fight your thoughts — trying to suppress or argue with a negative thought tends to give it more energy. Acknowledging it briefly as just a thought, then letting it pass without engaging, is far more effective. Visualising thoughts floating away can genuinely help here.
Use positive visualisation — imagining a calmer, more positive version of yourself is a tool used extensively in hypnotherapy. It works because the brain responds to vivid mental imagery in ways that can create real change.
Keep a gratitude diary — before bed, note down three things that went well or that you feel grateful for. It sounds simple but over time it genuinely helps redirect the brain away from negative defaults. This is something I often suggest to clients between sessions.
Hypnotherapy works at a subconscious level — which is exactly where habitual patterns of thinking are formed and maintained. That’s what makes it particularly effective for negative thinking and anxiety, even when other approaches haven’t worked.
Using positive suggestions, imagery and solution-focused techniques, hypnotherapy helps you access and shift patterns that feel deeply ingrained. Most people notice change relatively quickly, though building new habits to the point where they feel natural typically takes several sessions.
If negative thinking is affecting your life and you’d like to find out whether hypnotherapy could help, feel free to get in touch for a free informal chat on 07915 093588.

Exam season is the time of year that most students dread. It’s normal to feel some anxiety in the lead up to exams and in small doses it can actually help you perform better. When it becomes overwhelming though, it can have the opposite effect and get in the way of doing as well as you’re capable of.
As a hypnotherapist in Weston-super-Mare, I work with quite a few students during exam season and wanted to share some practical advice for teens currently struggling with exam anxiety — and for the parents trying to support them
Before addressing anxiety directly, I always look at what might be making it worse day to day. Some of the practical areas I explore with students include:
Sleep — Not getting enough sleep makes anxiety worse. Worries about exams and not being able to switch off can create a vicious cycle that makes sleep even harder. If poor sleep is part of the picture, it’s worth addressing this alongside the anxiety itself.
Nutrition — A balanced diet can help regulate anxiety, and some foods actively support a calmer nervous system. Avoiding things that wind it up — particularly caffeine — is especially important around exam time.
Hydration — Even mild dehydration can affect concentration and cognitive function, which matters a lot during study sessions. Don’t wait until you feel thirsty — by that point you’re already mildly dehydrated. Sip regularly throughout the day.
Sugar intake — Sugary foods and drinks cause blood sugar spikes followed by crashes, which can trigger the release of cortisol and adrenaline — the body’s stress hormones. Keeping sugar intake steady helps keep anxiety levels more stable too.
Regular breaks — Long study sessions aren’t always more productive ones. Research suggests cramming doesn’t improve retention, and studying without breaks depletes focus. Stepping away regularly actually helps the brain consolidate information.
Distractions — Time spent on phones and social media during study periods is a common factor. Having a clear structure and routine for managing study time can make a big difference.
If your teen is struggling with exam stress, there’s more you can do than you might think:
Minimise added stress at home — Anxiety about exams can be made worse by stresses that have nothing to do with studying. Being mindful of what’s discussed at home during this period — particularly around the dinner table — can help keep background anxiety lower.
Organise rewards and breaks — Planning enjoyable activities gives your teen something to look forward to and a genuine mental break from revision. It also strengthens your connection at a time when they may be feeling under pressure.
Help with structure — If your teen is struggling to build a revision routine and stick to it, helping them map one out can reduce the overwhelm of not knowing where to start.
Hypnotherapy helps teens think differently about themselves and the exams ahead. A big part of this is learning not to get pulled into “what if?” thinking — the spiral of worst-case scenarios that drives procrastination and avoidance.
Through hypnotherapy, I teach practical tools and techniques for calming a racing mind, so that going into an exam feels more manageable. When you feel calmer and more confident in your preparation, you’re genuinely more likely to perform well. Those same tools can be used in the exam room itself to manage pressure in the moment.
Combined with the lifestyle adjustments above, hypnotherapy can be a really effective way to reduce exam anxiety and help young people reach their full potential.
If you’d like to find out more, feel free to get in touch for a free informal chat on 07915 093588.
Smartphones and technology have made life easier in many ways — but they can also be a significant source of stress, anxiety and poor sleep.
Research suggests the average person checks their smartphone around 10,000 times a year — roughly 28 times a day. In this post I want to look at the link between technology use and anxiety, and share some practical tips for reducing your reliance on it.
A study by Anxiety UK found that regularly using technology increased anxiety, particularly around social networking. Many participants became more negative over time, comparing themselves unfavourably to others and finding it hard to switch off. Almost half reported a spike in anxiety when they couldn’t get online to check emails or social media.
The study concluded that people already prone to anxiety can find technology acts as a catalyst that makes things significantly worse.
Part of what makes technology so hard to step away from is the dopamine hit we get from notifications — dopamine being linked to reward, pleasure and even addictive behaviour. Add in FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and it becomes a powerful pull.
Blue light from screens is a separate but related issue — it suppresses melatonin production, making it harder to fall and stay asleep, which in turn increases anxiety and low mood.
Turn off notifications — Most of the time we check our phones because they pinged. Silencing notifications reduces the constant pull on your attention, even if it feels uncomfortable at first.
Check in on a schedule — If going cold turkey feels too much, wean yourself off gradually. Set an alarm every 15-20 minutes and allow yourself a brief check-in. Over time, extend the gap until you’re comfortable going an hour or two without checking.
Filter your emails — Set up filters so only important emails land directly in your inbox. Everything else goes into folders to review later at a time you choose, rather than interrupting you throughout the day.
Limit blue light before bed — Switch off screens at least an hour before bedtime. Blue light suppresses melatonin and can worsen anxiety, particularly if you’re already prone to overthinking or worry at night.
Try a digital detox — Even 24 hours away from devices can make a noticeable difference to your stress levels, concentration and sleep. If that feels too long, even a couple of hours of screen-free time each day can help.
If these tips don’t quite cut it on their own, hypnotherapy can help address the underlying patterns driving the behaviour.
It’s not just about willpower — compulsive phone checking is often linked to anxiety, habit loops or emotional triggers you may not even be fully aware of. Hypnotherapy works at that deeper level, helping you understand what’s driving the behaviour and giving you practical tools to respond differently.
If you’d like to find out more, feel free to get in touch for a free informal chat on 07915 093588.
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Helen Rogers is a qualified hypnotherapist with over 18 years of experience helping people overcome anxiety, stress, low confidence, overthinking, sleep difficulties and other challenges. Based in Weston-super-Mare, she combines solution-focused hypnotherapy and coaching to help clients make positive, lasting changes.
helen@helenrogers.co.uk