There’s no denying that smartphones and technology in general have made life a lot easier in some ways. It can also pave the way for stress, anxiety and insomnia.
Research has suggested that the average person checks their smartphone up to 10,000 times per year – which works out at around 28 times per day.
In this post I’m going to talk about the link between anxiety and digital distraction, and share some tips on how you can reduce your over reliance on technology.
A study by Anxiety UK found that regularly using technology increased anxiety, especially with regards to social networking. The behaviour of many of the participants became more negative and involved comparing themselves unfavourably to other people and finding it hard to switch off and relax. And if they couldn’t get online to check emails or social media, almost half of the the respondents experienced a spike in their anxiety levels.
The study concluded that people who are prone to anxiety can find that technology acts as a catalyst that results in their anxiety becoming overwhelming.
One of the reasons that technology can become addictive is the Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) when you’re not online.
Another factor is why we find it so hard to step back from technology. Researchers have suggested that we get a surge in dopamine levels every time we get a notification. Dopamine is linked to rewards and even addiction, especially if we expect the message to give us pleasure.
“Blue light” from technology is another issue associated with technology and is linked to sleep problems in particular. It reduces melatonin levels, which means it’s harder to get to sleep and stay asleep causing insomnia.
Here are some of my tips for reducing digital anxiety:
Turn off notifications: Most of the time, you check your phone because it pinged. If you set notifications to silent, you might still feel obliged to check “just in case”, especially to begin with but this is likely to happen less often because your attention isn’t being drawn to your phone whenever a notification sounds.
Check in every so often: If you can’t shut yourself off from your devices altogether to begin with, wean yourself off them bit by bit instead. Set an alarm to go off every 15 minutes and give yourself an opportunity to check in online for a brief minute or two each time it goes off. The idea is that you can gradually get used to going longer between check ins until you feel able to go up to an hour or two.
Filter your emails: One of the biggest causes of digital distraction is the number of emails that come through in the average day and the compulsion to check them as soon as a notification pings. Setting up your emails to filter only the most important emails directly to you and arranging for the rest to go into folders to be viewed later can significantly reduce the amount of notifications you receive. You can then set time aside to view the less important emails rather than feeling compelled to look at them there and then.
Limit “blue light”: With “blue light” being a problem for sleep, you don’t want to have too many devices in your bedroom or be active on them at the wrong time. Switching off devices at least an hour before bedtime limits the amount of “blue light” that you’re exposed to just before you go to bed. “Blue light” can affect the quality of your sleep, which can increase anxiety and encourage low mood – especially if you’re prone to worrying and negative thoughts. If you’re not currently affected by anxiety, insomnia can make you more likely to develop it.
Try a digital detox: A short term digital detox can have a lot of benefits for your emotional wellbeing, including helping you to concentrate better, sleep better and be less stressed. Doing this for too long may not be that realistic if you need to stay connected for work but if you can do a digital detox for even 24 hours, it can help your mind to switch off. Even a couple of hours of digital detoxing on a regular basis can be great for your mental health.
If this advice doesn’t help to reduce digital distraction, hypnotherapy could help.
Hypnotherapy has a great success rate in treating stress and anxiety and can also help to break the habit of checking devices all the time.
It can help you to get to the bottom of why you check your devices so much and provide tools and solutions to deal with the trigger(s) in different ways. You may not be consciously aware of what is behind it but emotions can often play a bigger role than you think.
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If you’re caught up in a cycle of negative thinking, it’s all too easy to feel that you have no choice but to let your thoughts continue to dominate you.
What if you could find a way to let go of negative thoughts and break the hold that they have over you? This can be a genuine reality if you can retrain your brain to change how you think and feel, and it’s not as difficult as you might think.
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Negative thinking is essentially a habit and like all habits, it can take a while to fully break the control it has. Think of it like a muscle: building it up doesn’t happen overnight but over time, it leads to better emotional strength and resilience. For most people change happens very quickly with hypnotherapy but it can take between 6-12 sessions to ensure the good habits become second nature.
I’m going to talk about retraining your mind to think positively, rather than negatively, and give you some tips on how it works.
What is negative thinking?
Negative thinking often involves judging, criticising and doubting yourself at every turn. These thoughts can pop into your mind completely out of the blue and their effects can be truly confidence zapping and soul destroying.
Some of the forms that negative thinking can take include:
How negative thoughts fuel anxiety
We all experience negative thinking sometimes and in itself, it’s not a big issue.
The problems begin when we believe our negative thoughts and automatically accept them as fact. Not taking a step back from them and questioning whether they have any basis means negative thoughts can act as instant triggers for the fight-or-flight stress response.
It fools your brain into believing that there is an immediate threat that needs to be dealt with and the physical symptoms of the fight-or-flight response quickly kick in.
Some aspects of negative thinking are based on things that are happening in the present but your worries can quickly move from here to the future. This can lead to anxiety about ‘what if?’ scenarios affecting your health, finances, relationships and other parts of your life. At its worst, this can result in chronic, debilitating anxiety and panic attacks.
It’s not hard to see how negative thoughts can completely dominate your mind, to the point that they crowd out everything else, and affect your physical health.
Retraining your mind is one of the best ways to control negative thoughts and the anxiety they create.
Encouraging your brain to think more positively can feel overwhelming, especially if negative thoughts and beliefs have been part of your life for a long time.
A few things to keep in mind
Your thoughts do not define you: Your thoughts and your mind in general are just a part of who you are. Negative thoughts aren’t true in many cases and don’t validate ‘truths’ about yourself – no matter how real they may feel. Being able to separate yourself from your thoughts means they won’t have the same power and control as before.
Be aware of how you think: Negative thinking can become second nature and you may not even realise how much it is happening. Becoming really conscious of your thoughts is the first step to being able to change things, allowing you to be aware of every negative thought that comes into your mind. Paying this level of attention to them brings a sense of mindfulness and helps you to take a vital step back. This starts to reduce a lot of the power that negative thoughts hold over you. And eventually, the power disappears altogether.
Don’t fight your thoughts: When you become aware of a negative thought, trying to fight against it gives it more power in your mind. Acknowledging it briefly (as a thought rather than a fact) and then letting it ‘float’ away without giving yourself the opportunity to believe it takes away this power and allows you to regain some control over your thoughts. Positive imagery can help here. Imagining that you can literally see your negative thoughts floating off into the distance can be very liberating. One key thing here: trying to judge, ignore or change a negative thought helps it to retain its power.
Visualise yourself being more positive: When you are caught up in a cycle of negative thinking, it can be almost impossible to see yourself being a positive person in the future but this is where visualisation and positive imagery techniques can really come into their own. This can be a powerful tool for encouraging change, which is one of the big reasons why it’s used in hypnotherapy.
Keep a positivity/gratitude diary: Before you go to bed, think about 3 things that have been good about the day or that you feel grateful for. This is one of things I ask my clients to do in between our sessions as it’s a great way to focus your mind on being more positive. Over time, it can help to retrain your brain to move away from negative thinking onto more positive ground.
Hypnotherapy can help: Hypnotherapy is a very effective intervention for anxiety and stress. One of the big plus points of hypnotherapy is the ability to access the subconscious mind, which is where habits and patterns of behaviour are formed, including negative thinking. Because it works at a subconscious level, it can be successful in changing habits and behaviours, even when other approaches fall short. Some of the tools that can do this include positive suggestions and imagery.
Negative thinking can be a difficult habit to break and if you’re feeling overwhelmed by it at the moment, don’t despair! It’s not an overnight process but it is definitely possible to retrain your mind to think more positively. Lots of my clients have been able to do this very successfully through hypnotherapy.
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